Ask Yourself These Five Questions Before Engaging In Tochacha ❦ Mussar Conversation #23

Making the decision to try to talk through stuff with someone can be scary. You want it to go well but there's also that terrifying possibility that you'll just make things worse. How can you know if it'll be worth the effort or if it would be better to just let it go? Are there things you can do to get ready for what could turn into a challenging situation? In the next four talks you'll see how to actually have those hard conversations, but first here are some questions to ask yourself before you even decide to try 'being mochiach'. I hope they help!